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The Solution to “Nothing to Wear”

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I’ve been in a lot of closets, most of them with an abundance of choices. However, over and over, clients tell me, “I have no tops.” The last word in the sentence varies, but when I go into their closet, I see A LOT of what they tell me they lack. Funny, right? Lacking options is not the problem.

Fill in the blank of where you feel like you have nothing. Then, go into your closet and COUNT how many of that item you own. Most of the time, you have PLENTY of that item. The problem is not a lack of quantity; it’s not owning enough of what you look forward to wearing.

Our closets sometimes become a collection of “crap shoot” choices, wardrobe mistakes, and “close but not quite.” And rather than edit those items out, we keep them thinking we might need it one day. We won’t. Ideally, we walk in our closets and see only what we enjoy wearing, pieces that feel supportive and make us happy.

The Solution

How do we get there? Slowly and carefully.

As I explained in my January blog post, ask yourself a series of questions to determine where your style is going and what will make you feel like you have plenty to wear. All of the questions in the post are good ones, yet the last question is the king of questions: Does this purchase support the wardrobe I’m building?

By slowing down and thinking about what items support your life, your body, and your style, you will have more than enough to wear and then some.

Slow wardrobe building is not the pace we are accustomed to. Our feeds are full of wardrobe hauls, and they create a desire to have what she’s having. I love getting style ideas from influencers, but I’m less likely to buy a piece unless it ticks all my boxes plus it fills a gap in my wardrobe.

Edit for Clarity

May is mental health awareness month. As I’ve explained in previous May blog posts, this is a great time to edit your wardrobe. While it may seem that having a lot of choices is better, too much in the closet creates decision fatigue and raises anxiety. Fewer choices + better choices = an abundant wardrobe.

Your Path Forward

The path to more in your closet involves doing less: less impulse buys, less trendy buys, and LOTS less buying overall. Sound scary? It shouldn’t. Buying less and better will save you lots of money in the long run! It’s just harder to think about spending $125 for a pair of shoes than $65. I know because I fight this urge all the time. “Oh, it’s only $____.” If it’s a great buy AND it moves your wardrobe in the right direction, wonderful. If it’s just buying to buy for the great deal, skip it and enjoy a meal out with a friend instead.

A New Mindset – One Great Thing

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This year, go for “one great thing” rather than five okay things. With this in mind, I’ve created a catalog. I know I just told you to buy less, and here I come with a catalog. Hear me out. I don’t want you to buy everything here or even three things. I am simply demonstrating good brands making quality items where you might be inspired to invest in one great thing. The items in the image above are in the catalog.

I’m Here for You

Need help with your wardrobe and style? I’m here for you. Send me a message so we can have a brief discovery call. It’s always free, and I’d be happy to walk you through my process. Invest in education with a style coach. Learn what works and why. Then, you have the structure in place to make better wardrobe decisions in the future. You are spending on me to save on your wardrobe in the long run.

Thank you for reading! Wishing you a wonderful spring and summer season! I’d love to hear about your one great thing.

Photo of me by Stephanie Sifuentes at Denim Manor in Dallas.

Style Questions for 2026

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Last year on the blog, I shared a lot of style advice from shopping your wardrobe to finding your style and assembling a thoughtful wardrobe. This year let’s start by answering some questions. Answering the questions below will lead you to your current style and a supportive wardrobe. Remember, great style isn’t created from random shopping trips or trend panic. It comes from clarity.

Before you buy anything new this year, take time to reflect.

1. Who am I dressing for right now?

Your style evolves as you evolve. I see a lot of closets that hold many reminders from the “five years ago” version to the “someday” version of my client. Consider what your life is like today. Are you working from home? Going into an office? Running after kids? Social more than ever? Retired? Traveling more? Your clothes should match your real life. If your closet is full of fantasy outfits that don’t fit your life, you will struggle to put together outfits that make sense.

2. How do I want to feel in my clothes this year?

As I shared in my blog post last year about Allison Bornstein’s book Wear It Well, she asks her clients to identify their emotional word – this word describes how you want to feel in your clothing. So, answer this question. How do you want to feel as you walk out the door for your day? Confident? Relaxed? Polished? Creative? Powerful? Style is emotional before it’s visual. When you name the feeling, you stop chasing random trends and start choosing pieces that support your mood and mindset. The right clothes help you step into the energy you want more of.

3. What did I wear on repeat last year?

Your most-worn pieces tell the story. Actually, this is another tip from Allison Bornstein, which leads you to another one of your three style words. As she explains, your “realistic word” describes the looks you wear all the time. So, what are your closet repeaters? I bet they are not the impulse buys and the sale rack “maybes.” Build your dream wardrobe around what already works.

4. What did I avoid wearing — and why?

This is where you will find the pieces that need to go. I call it wardrobe editing, some call it purging. There is always a reason you bypass an item. Is it uncomfortable, a poor fit, or the wrong color? Does it not work for your life today? (See above.) Sometimes an item does not feel right, though you are not sure why. Work towards a wardrobe that feels supportive, like a good friend. The other stuff that brings you down is taking up mental and physical space. Ditch it.

5. Where am I settling?

Ooooo. You weren’t expecting this one, were you? Everyone keeps clothes that are just okay. Most of the time, these pieces were purchased in a rush. They might be shoes that hurt a little, or jeans that almost fit, or a blazer that kind of works. We aren’t going for an “okay” style this year. We are going for GREAT. Where do you start? Ditch the “okay” pieces and upgrade slowly to ones that look and feel fantastic when you put them on. Take your time.

6. Which wardrobe gaps actually matter?

After taking stock of what you have, you might realize you don’t need more clothes. Perhaps you just need a few specific pieces. You might need an everyday coat, better layering basics, or shoes that work with most outfits. Don’t replace everything you edit out. Allow the additional space in your wardrobe to provide the breathing room you’ve needed to create great outfits and enjoy what’s there.

7. Does this purchase support the wardrobe I’m building?

This is your main style question for the year. After you have reflected on the questions above and you’re ready to start purchasing wardrobe refreshers, be sure the new item is worthy to be in the wardrobe you are assembling. Before buying, make sure the piece is a style upgrade, not a repeat of what you have already done.

The Bottom Line

Great style isn’t about having more. It’s about having clarity. When you understand your life, your preferences, and your goals, getting dressed becomes easier, faster, and more satisfying. This year, let your wardrobe reflect who you are now and the direction you are going.

I’m Here for You

Need help? Email me at bethany@bethanysiggins.com. I can assist you with identifying your style words, editing your wardrobe and creating your wardrobe wish list. This is your year to dress for exactly who you are.

Photo of me by Dahlias and Daisies Designs shot on location in Highland Park Village.

Fresh Fashion Habits for the New Year

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Well, here we are at the end of 2025. Can you believe it? As we close out this year, think about what you’d like to change about your wardrobe or style in 2026. A new year is the perfect time to rethink how we engage with our closets. Fashion is fun—expressive, creative, confidence-boosting—but the way we shop and care for our clothes has a huge impact on the planet and on our wallets. The good news: small changes add up. Here are six fashion habits worth carrying into the year ahead.

1. Buy Less (And Buy with Intention)

Fast fashion thrives on impulse. But the most sustainable piece of clothing is the one you wear over and over. In 2026, make “buy less” your mantra. Instead of grabbing whatever’s trending, pause and ask yourself a few quick questions:

  • Will I wear this multiple times?
  • Does it work with a few things I already own?
  • Is the fit good and the quality there?

You don’t have to eliminate shopping—you just need to shop thoughtfully. Intentional buying leads to a more cohesive wardrobe, fewer regrets, and clothing that reflects your style and works for your lifestyle.

2. Buy Second-Hand Whenever Possible

Second-hand is no longer a compromise; it’s a fashion treasure hunt. Thrift stores, consignment boutiques, vintage shops, and online resale platforms are overflowing with high-quality pieces that have barely been worn. My favorite finds are “new with tags.” There are lots of these, too, for prices under retail. If you spot something in the store that is a bit outside of your budget or comfort zone pricewise, search for it second hand. I’ve done this with success!

When you buy second-hand, you cut down on the demand for new production and extend the life of items that would otherwise end up in landfill. Plus, I find more interesting items for my wardrobe second-hand. I found this Zara dress recently at Clothes Circuit in Dallas for $35. I’ve received oodles of compliments on it – bonus! It’s not the amount you spend but whether it’s right for you.

3. Edit & Donate Responsibly

Start the new year with a wardrobe edit. If you’d like help with this, email me. Keep in mind how you let pieces go matters. For good condition clothing, fill a bag for ThredUp (and get a bit of credit), or take the items to one of your favorite small charities that will use the items responsibly. My two favorite places to donate in east Dallas are White Rock Center of Hope and Second Chance Treasures.

If the item is beyond resale condition, send it to ReTold Recyling. You will pay for the bags but remember they are performing a valuable service that is worth paying for. They are keeping these pieces out of landfill! The bags are small, so get at least three if you have a lot of donations.

If the item is in excellent condition, you can sell it yourself. This takes time and patience. I have a small collection of items listed on PoshMark. My handle is my first and last name. PoshMark has allowed me to buy items for our family for less because every time I sell, a portion goes into my balance. You’d be surprised how it adds up. Sometimes I’ve “purchased” pieces for $0 because my balance covers it.

Lastly, if others are interested, do a clothing swap with friends or a neighborhood group. Whatever isn’t taken can then be donated. Getting stuff for free that you need is helpful!

4. Shop In Person When You Can

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Online shopping is convenient, but it has a carbon cost. Shipping items to your door—and returning items—creates significant emissions. In-person shopping eliminates back-and-forth transportation and drastically reduces returns.

There’s another upside: you make better purchase decisions when you can feel fabrics, assess quality, check fit, and compare colors in real light.

5. Wash Less Often, at Lower Temps & Hang to Dry

Most of us over-wash our clothes. Washing too frequently wears down fibers, fades colors, and shortens garment life. I recently washed a pair of jeans I had not washed since I purchased them (in the summer of 2024!). Jeans rarely need washing. Spot clean, hang them to air out for several hours and return them to your wardrobe.

A few washing tips:

  • Wash only when needed. Unless they are undergarments, wear multiple times.
  • Use cold water. It preserves fabrics and saves energy.
  • Spot-clean instead of full washes. The Tide Stain Remover Pen works great for me.
  • Hang garments to dry. Heat breaks down elastic and fibers much faster. Plus, driers release microplastics and use a lot of energy.

Your clothes will last longer, feel better, and keep their shape. Plus, you may reduce your energy bill.

6. Buy from Responsible Brands

Not every brand operates with sustainability in mind—but plenty are trying. Look for companies that are transparent about their materials, production practices, and labor standards. Certifications and detailed sustainability pages are signs they’re putting in real work, not greenwashing.

Responsible brands may cost more upfront, but you’re investing in higher-quality pieces produced with care. Over time, this reduces turnover in your wardrobe and supports companies that prioritize people and the planet. You can check Good on You for brand ratings.

Final Thoughts

Just as with New Year’s resolutions, which can quickly fall by the wayside, don’t allow too many changes at once to overwhelm and stop you from making changes in the New Year. Pick one or two habits to start, build from there, and celebrate small wins. Let your 2026 wardrobe work for you and for the world around you.

If you want help with your style and wardrobe in the New Year, contact me. A discovery call is always free. I look forward to hearing from you.

Wishing you a beautiful holiday season and a fantastic New Year.

Photos of me by Dahlias and Daisies Designs shot on location in Highland Park Village and Denim Manor.

Assembling a Thoughtful Fall Wardrobe

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There’s something deeply satisfying about opening your closet on a crisp fall morning and knowing that everything inside feels intentional, is flattering, and will serve you well in the season ahead. Building a thoughtful wardrobe doesn’t happen overnight—it’s a process that rewards patience, self-awareness, and restraint. With a little planning, you can create a fall wardrobe that reflects your personal style, supports your lifestyle, and feels cohesive from top to toe.

Step 1: Create a Wardrobe Plan

Before shopping or even browsing online, take inventory of what you already have. What pieces do you wear on repeat every autumn? Which items go untouched year after year? Pull out your favorites and notice the patterns—perhaps you’re drawn to earthy neutrals, cozy textures, or tailored silhouettes. As you review your favorites, make a list of what’s missing or needs replacing. Maybe it’s a pair of dark jeans, a structured blazer, or comfortable ankle boots. Taking this approach means each new addition has a clear purpose in your wardrobe.

A wardrobe plan is a shopping roadmap: it helps you stay focused and grounded when trends and temptations start calling. Plus, it saves time and money by preventing duplicate or impractical purchases.

Step 2: Shop Your Plan

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Keep your list on your phone or in a notebook so you can refer to it when you’re out browsing. Shopping this way turns the experience from random hunting into purposeful selection. You’ll know exactly what you’re looking for, which makes it easier to spot pieces that fit your vision. Besides, you can bypass most of the store inventory this way.

This doesn’t mean shopping has to be rigid or joyless—it simply becomes more intentional. You might discover an unexpected sweater or scarf that works perfectly with what you already own. The goal is to ensure that every piece you bring home earns its spot in your closet.

Step 3: Take Your Time

A thoughtful wardrobe takes time to build. Instead of trying to overhaul everything at once, pace yourself. Wait for the right version of each item—the coat that fits perfectly across the shoulders, the boots that balance comfort and style, the sweater that feels as good as it looks. When you find the right piece, you’ll know it. Rushing to fill gaps often leads to settling for less, and those “almost right” items rarely become long-term favorites.

Step 4: Walk Away from Impulse Purchases

It’s tempting to chase the thrill of something new, especially when stores are full of new ideas and seasonal trends. I am 100% for an impulse purchase here and there. They keep your wardrobe lively and fun. However, every shopping trip need not lead to a purchase, especially if you don’t find pieces that are part of your plan. Before buying, pause and ask: Does this fill a real need? Does it pair well with what I already own? Am I just buying it for the thrill of purchasing something? I have walked away from pieces many times over the last handful of years. If I’m still thinking about it a week later, I might get it. If it is sold out a week later, it was not meant to be. I’ve saved my budget and my closet space by incorporating “thinking about it.”

Final Thoughts

A thoughtful fall wardrobe isn’t about quantity—it’s about quality, intention, and alignment with your life and your personal style. Take your time, trust your plan, and enjoy the process of curating a collection that truly feels like you.

A Little Shopping

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Over the last month, I’ve put together a thoughtful fall catalog with several sections including tops, bottoms, jackets, boots, and bags. Once you have made your fall wardrobe plan, look through the catalog to see if anything there fits into your plan. Shop the items in the collage above and more in the catalog.

More Reading

I’m passionate about style and wardrobes. It’s my career after all. If you want more information about image and style, please refer to my previous blog posts about sustainability, shopping your closet, wardrobe edits, and finding your style.

Learn About My Process

Want to learn about my process? Email me to set up a brief discovery call. It’s always free! I help clients create their shopping plan. So, if this sounds like something you need, let’s talk. You can find a list of all of my services here.

Wishing you a wonderful fall season. Thanks for reading!

Photos of me by Dahlias and Daisies Designs shot on location in Highland Park Village and Denim Manor.

Fall 2025 Fashion Trends & Colors

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While we wait on the mercury to drop below 80, now is a great time to plan for the fall season. With summer almost in the rear-view mirror, we can start bringing lighter-weight fall pieces to the front of our closet and begin tucking away things like linen and eyelet.

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Fall 2025 Top Color Trends

First, let’s discuss color. The biggest color trend of the season is the explosion of chocolate brown. This is no surprise given the Pantone color of the year for 2025 is mocha mousse. Brown is easier on the eyes than black, it is more approachable, and it pairs successfully with more colors than black. If you love black, bring in a bit of brown and wear those pieces together.

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Lime Green

Another big color trend this season is lime green. You are going to see this trend on many items this season from sweaters to bags. My advice is to do this color in a print (where it isn’t the only color) or in a small item like a bag where it is not directly by your face. The reason: this is a difficult color to wear successfully. Most complexions struggle to pull it off. If you want to know which greens are your best ones, let’s do your color analysis. Email me to discuss.

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Poppy Red

Poppy red is once again a big color story this season. Just like with lime green, this color is hard to successfully wear since it’s so bright. I recommend strips of the color like in the garments here or do one of the biggest fall trends: a red shoe.

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Earthy Brown with Color Pops

The main color story for fall 2025 is earthy tones with bright pops. Many colors pair well with chocolate brown, so it’s no surprise we saw poppy red, lime green and lemon trending. Next to poppy red, we are seeing a lot of purple and pale pink. Besides chocolate brown, for neutrals we are seeing quite a few bronzy tones, deep blue, light gray, and deep wine.  It’s always a good idea to know your best colors before investing in new colors for the season. Email me to learn more about custom color analysis. Also, view my August blog post about custom color analysis to see how my process works.

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Fall 2025 Top Fashion Trends

What we are seeing overall this season is a return to an everyday, wearable wardrobe that expresses an effortless sophistication. It’s classic but not boring. Some of the top trends are shown in this collage. You likely have quite a few of fall’s trends in your closet.

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Fall Top 10 Fashion Trends

For those who love a list (raising my hand), here’s a Top 10 run-down of fall fashion trends:

  • Fur and faux fur (I recommend faux)
  • Red shoes
  • Higher necklines (lots of funnel necklines on jackets)
  • Belts (do this if you have a defined waist or need to cinch a shapeless garment)
  • Loafers (great with jeans and trousers)
  • Vests (wear over a t-shirt for casual or a blouse for dressier)
  • Fringe (a little bit goes a long way; try a clutch or a bag with a tassel)
  • Cardigans (wear open over the tee or top of your choice)
  • Check/Plaid (anything goes; I love a blazer or trousers)
  • Animal print (not new, always fun)

Runway Inspiration

Although the fashion runway is always exponentially more dramatic than real life, I always enjoy the photos. I created a Pinterest board here to show you the runway trends.

Shop Your Closet First

Per usual, my advice is to take your time and be very thoughtful about what you add to your wardrobe this season. Most of the time, a few new things are enough to energize your entire wardrobe, making it feel fresh and modern.

Do not purchase anything until you switch your closest from summer to fall. Otherwise, you may discover you didn’t need the new pieces you just bought. Always shop your closet first. Need help with the seasonal switch? Email me. Now is a great time to do it.

Shop These Collages

That said, every piece in these collages is in my Early Fall catalog. Many pieces are size inclusive at an affordable price point. If you would like your own personalized shop, email me. I can help!

If you’d like help making your fall wish list, email me. I am here to make the fashion and style part of your life easy and stress-free. Wishing you a beautiful start to your fall season!

Your Five Summer Style Secrets

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As I’ve made it known in countless posts over the years, my favorite time of year for dressing is fall. I love the colors, the textures, and the layers (when the warm Texas winters allow). HOWEVER, given we are officially starting summer this week and temps have reminded us summer is coming in hot, let’s turn our focus on how to dress and feel our best dressing for summer.

I have five style secrets to making summer dressing easy and fun.

(1) The less clutter, the more you have to wear.

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Over the last handful of years, I’ve encouraged my readers and my clients to reduce their buying, focusing on having fewer, higher quality items. I’m doing this, too. As you make this shift, it’s important to continually edit your wardrobe. While I don’t put hard and fast rules on removing a piece if you’ve not worn it in a year (for example), it is important to frequently check in with your wardrobe. Is each piece supporting you? Does it communicate your style message? Has it done its work for you? Does it belong to a person you used to be?

It’s okay to let go of pieces you once loved to make room for pieces that excite you now. You and your life are changing all the time. What you want to wear and need to wear changes, also. You are never losing anything when you remove an item from your wardrobe. If you grieve letting go of something from your past, the newer version is more modern and fitting with the times. There is always something new that is as good or better than what you let go of.

Once you edit, removing the clutter, you can see the best of your pieces and get more creative with them. Fewer pieces = more outfits. I touched on the edit process in my April blog post here if you need a step-by-step.

Need help editing? Email me to discuss my process, which is a bit different than the one described in the April blog post. A wardrobe edit gives you more control over your style message, and it teaches you what works and what does NOT and why.

(2) Find your outfit formula and wear it on repeat.

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For a lot of ladies, the summer outfit formula is a dress and sandals. I am more of a “separates” person, so my formula is a top and a skirt. Dresses are easy “one and done” outfits. HOWEVER, dresses are not easy for all women. Don’t despair. Determine what works best for you and go in that direction. Once you have your formula, there is less thinking about what you will wear. Getting dressed quickly and easily is the goal. You make many decisions throughout the day. Don’t exhaust your brain at the front end of your morning.

(3) Keep your footwear simple with 2-3 pairs you interchange.

The image below illustrates how easy it is to have everything you need in a few pairs of shoes for the entire season. I’ve created a summer shoes catalog here. The catalog has four categories: sandals, sneaker/hybrid shoe, elevated shoe, and flat/house shoe (the bonus shoe). Choose your favorite from these four groups and call it done on your summer shoe shopping.

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I started rotating between a few pairs of shoes in the summer of 2020. I liked having fewer, better options, and I have not looked back. You can find the above pairs in my summer shoes catalog here. I am also linking them here: (1) Sorel Kinetic Sandal, (2) Isle Jacobsen Tulip slip-on, (3) Sofft Inez wedge sandal, and (4) Steve Madden Hadyn slide. As always, I’m available for personalized help. If you don’t see what you need in the catalog or the above links, email me.

(4) Hang hats and summer scarves by the door.

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I was never wearing my beloved summer hats and scarves because they were not nearby when it was time to head out for my day. A summer scarf is needed in cold restaurants and protects your shoulders and chest from the summer sun. Hats do a great job of protecting our scalp, our hair color (for those who color their hair), and our faces. Even if it’s a simple ball cap, have one ready to go. Hats keep you a bit cooler, too. Bonus: hang a standby bag by the door to switch to something smaller for dinner.

Pro tip: As you are pulling out scarves and hats to place by the door, edit the ones you no longer wear or enjoy. 2-3 hats and 4-5 scarves are plenty. For the record, I own two summer scarves (shown above).

(5) Self-tanner and sunscreen will save your skin.

I’ve said it many times over the years… sunscreen is the #1 ant-aging cream on the market. Dermatologists typically recommend 50 SPF. I have a few that I love, which are in a handy shopping catalog here. The catalog also features some of my favorite self-tanning products. All products are trial and error. What works for me may not work for you. Be sure to read the reviews and be aware of your skin type. If you get nothing else this season, buy a quality sunscreen that will protect the only skin you’ll ever have.

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The products in the collage above are in my Self-tanner & Sunscreen catalog here. If you want a direct link they are here: (1) It Cosmetics Hello Sunshine Invisible Sunscreen for Face SPF 50, (2) Supergoop! Glowscreen SPF 40, (3) Coola Sunless Tan Firming Lotion, and (4) Coola Sunless Tan Anti-Aging Daily Moisturizer.

That’s it! Summer style simplified: reduce the closet clutter, determine your outfit formula, rotate between a few pairs of shoes, have your accessories handy, and protect and add glow to your skin safely. If you’d like help with your summer wardrobe, email me via my website here. I’d be delighted to make the getting dressed part of your life easy and stress-free.

What are your summer style secrets? Drop me a comment! Thanks for reading.

Wishing you a fantastic, stylish summer season!