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Wardrobe Edit Inspired by Project 333

May 7, 2021 by Bethany Siggins

What is Project 333?

If you’ve not heard of Project 333, here’s the premise: Wear 33 pieces of clothing (including jewelry, shoes and bags) for 3 months. Pack the rest of your wardrobe out of sight. I don’t know about you, but that kind of frightens me.

Who created it and why?

Project 333 was created by Courtney Carver. Courtney had developed a habit of buying to feel better and to show others she was accomplished during a high-pressure period of her life. She was worn out and in debt, and, eventually, she fell seriously ill. It was from that place of debilitation, Courtney realized she had to make serious and drastic changes. Project 333 was born. Eventually, she wrote a book, and my husband gave it to me for Christmas.

Are 33 pieces enough?

Yes, 33 pieces are more than enough to create many outfits for a 3-month period. As long as your pieces work together, you can interchange tops, bottoms, accessories and jackets to create a variety of outfits, much more than 90 outfits, in fact. We call this a wardrobe capsule in my business. 

My Favorite Takeaways

Clothing and buying more are not fixes for other things going on in your life. I have been there and done that. When we were new to Seattle, I spent my downtime shopping at local Goodwill and resale stores. I didn’t need more. I was simply decompressing from the stress. However, I came away from our time in Seattle with quite a few resale treasures that I still own. I love them, and I’m glad I have them. Be careful as you shop. The best policy is to buy the piece if it truly fills a void in your closet, rather than a void in your life.

Refuse to live in fear of not having enough. I have clients who have survived traumas. One common thread is their wardrobes have far more pieces than they could ever wear. They have enough, but they continue to buy from a place of fear. They think the new thing will help them feel better or feel more secure. One more thing is not the answer. Walk away from it and spend time doing something else that nourishes you. You have enough.

Adopt a “one is enough” philosophy wherever you can. This works with your wardrobe, but it works in many other areas, too. Have you ever known someone who always has multiples of things? 80 rolls of toilet paper in the garage, 10 candles in the bathroom cabinet, etc. A lot of older baby boomers do this, likely stemming from not having enough post WWII. I am guilty of this in my closet: 15 pairs of jeans, 15 graphic tees, 20 jackets, etc. Hey, I love fashion. Sue me! I’m not very good at “one is enough,” obviously. Here’s the thing about “one is enough.” It is. If the piece you have is dirty, you’ll wear something else. You’ll buy another one if something happens to it. You don’t need a backup, especially if you don’t love it as much as your #1. 

“Just in case” means never most of the time. I’m guilty of this, too. I never go to black tie events, but maybe I will one day. So, I have a lovely long dress I’ve held onto for two years “just in case.” Many of my clients hold onto a black dress for funerals. Newsflash, no one wears black to funerals anymore. How many funerals do you attend and how often? If “almost none” and “almost never” are your answers, let go of the black dress. On the occasion of a funeral, I bet you have a non-black dress or a blouse and a skirt you can wear. If not, you can buy it when you need it.

Am I doing Project 333?

No. However, all of the above spoke to me. In fact, it inspired me to empty a bag full of clothing from my dresser drawers and closet (including the two pieces below). My wardrobe was already well-edited, mind you. As someone who works in fashion and dresses to express my personality and style, a 33-piece capsule would feel boring and stifling, just as Courtney’s overstuffed closet stifled her. But I do have favorites I wear many times over other things.

Admittedly, since removing the pieces from my closet, it has been easier to get dressed. I can better see the pieces I love to wear. Sometimes we can’t see a piece even when we are looking at it because there are too many things around it demanding attention. I feel lighter letting go of pieces I think I should be wearing, but I’m not. It’s a mental lift. I recently cleared the Safari cache on my phone and “lost” oodles of tabs I had open: articles I planned to read “one day,” products to look into, etc. It’s fine. I’ll live. Now, my phone feels lighter!

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Two of my discards.

Your Assignment

You don’t have to do Project 333 either unless it speaks to you. However, I would love for you to take something from this post and apply it. Clear out some “just in case” pieces and subpar back ups. You don’t have to donate them yet. Just see if you can live without them for a while. If you miss something, go get it. If you never miss them, donate them. There’s a lot of need for your extras in our communities.

A Gentle Reminder

Books like Project 333 remind us that we do not need as much as we think we do. Further, we do not have to hold onto things until they are worn out or threadbare (guilty). My wish for your closet is for you to see a “celebration” of the woman you are today, not the woman you were 10 years ago or the woman you hope to be in 10 lbs.

Don’t be confident in what you wear. Be confident in who you are.

Courtney Carver

If you’d like help creating space in your wardrobe, leave a comment here or send me an email at bethany@bethanysiggins.com. I’d be delighted to assist you. Happy editing! Need inspo? Check out my “Creating Space” series on YouTube.

Filed Under: Fashion, Personal Style Tagged With: bethanysays, bethanysiggins, Personal Style, project333, wardrobe edit, wardrobing

Girl, Get Back in Your Pants

March 10, 2021 by Bethany Siggins

Ladies, breaking news! There are comfortable pants on the market that are NOT workout pants! Can you believe it?! (Can you hear my sarcasm?) During that past year of mostly being home and wearing only sweats or yoga pants, there is an in-between pant that has pushed its way to the forefront. They slip on easily, so you won’t find them less comfortable than what you are already wearing. And they are 100x more stylish!

Time to Tuck Away the Yoga Pants

You must be feeling kind of bored pulling on your yoga pants every day. I wear them, too (for yoga), and they are not as comfortable as the pants I’m sharing in this post. With the snug fit of yoga pants, there’s a lot of pulling and tugging to get them on just right. And they leave nothing to the imagination. With the pants in my catalog, the fit is slim but not tight, so they look much more polished and they provide a balanced look.

Welcome to Your New Go-To Pants

My favorites come from a variety of retailers, and I’ve only scratched the surface. For this post, I’ve created a nifty catalog where you can see all my selections in one place for easy browsing and purchasing if you are inclined. There’s truly no excuse to keep wearing yoga pants with so many great options! Happy shopping! Let me know what you get.

Time for Your Spring Edit & Shop

I’m here to help you edit and update for the season. Now is the perfect time as we transition the wardrobe from winter to spring. E-mail me at bethany@bethanysiggins.com to set up a discovery call to get started!

Filed Under: Fashion, Shopping Tagged With: image consultant, Image Consulting, style advice, style coach, wardrobe edit, work from home

The Wardrobe Edit – Tending your Garden

July 28, 2020 by Bethany Siggins

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In the early spring, a landscape designer visited my home to discuss a project. As she was leaving, she bent over the flower bed and began breaking off pansy blooms, much to my horror. She explained she was deadheading the pansies, and this would encourage growth and more blooms. I was skeptical, but I deferred to her expertise. 

For those who don’t know deadheading, as I didn’t, removing the faded or dead flowers from a plant channels its energy into the new flowers that are blooming. Low and behold, after I fertilized the plants, deadheaded the blooms and watered, I had a gorgeous, enviable bed full of yellow blooms about two weeks later. I did not have an immediate result, but it was worth the wait to see the explosion of color!

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Reasons to Let Go

Editing a wardrobe is similar to deadheading. After the landscape designer left, I wondered if my clients felt as I had watching the blooms removed from the pansies. As I work through a client’s wardrobe, I suggest removal of items that no longer serve the client. The reasons vary, but they are always compelling: (1) it no longer fits, (2) it is not a good color or shape for the client, (3) it is worn out, (4) it is out of style or (5) it is no longer relevant to the client’s life or lifestyle. 

When a client lets go of unneeded pieces, there is space for new items which reflect their style and lifestyle today. Tend to your wardrobe as you would a garden. Once we plant shrubs, flowers and other landscaping, we pull weeds and prune to keep it looking great. Your wardrobe is no different. It blooms best when you give it room to grow. Then, be patient. Developing the wardrobe of your dreams takes time just as a garden needs time to reach its full potential.

Letting Go is a Process

Letting go is always easier said than done. We hold onto pieces for various reasons, including a fond memory it evokes. For years, I held onto a pair of mules I was wearing the night I met John, who is now my husband. I no longer wore the shoes, but I wanted to remember that night by keeping them. Finally, one day I said to myself, “I got the guy. I don’t need the shoes.” And that was that. I donated the shoes.

The “letting go” moment must happen naturally. Give yourself space and time. Loosen your grip on it and ask yourself why you want to keep it. A few paragraphs above, I wrote I “suggest removal” of pieces from a client’s wardrobe. I don’t come in with trash bags. I make the suggestion, and the client decides if the piece stays or goes. 

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Keepsakes are Special

Keepsakes are in a different category. They might be things you wore during an important or special time in your life. If room allows, keepsakes go in a separate closet or in a box under the bed. Confession: I have my cheerleading uniform from junior high and the sweater I wore in the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, along with a few pieces of my children’s clothing when they were little. It’s fun to look at them on occasion, and it’s nice to have a few pieces from your wardrobe history.

That was Then. This is Now.

Many are editing their wardrobes (and their entire homes) since the pandemic began. It is therapeutic. Removing the extra creates an environment where we can breathe easier. Too much stuff is stifling. We are realizing we need much less than we own.

Our lives are different right now. From a wardrobe standpoint, all we need is a great Zoom shirt and a comfortable pair of pants! Look at your wardrobe and ask yourself if you love everything there. Be brutal about what must go, and be highly selective about what you allow in.

Questions to Ask Yourself

Look at your wardrobe and be honest. Does each piece represent who you are today? Do you feel good wearing it? Does it fit properly? Would you buy it again if you saw it in a resale shop?

Getting More from Your Wardrobe

You are not losing anything when you decrease your options. In fact, fewer options gives you the opportunity to be more creative. In the end, a tidy wardrobe serves you better. A big reason we shop for a new outfit is we can’t see what’s right in front of us for all the things in the way.

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I Can Help

Your wardrobe communicates your style story. I can help you create a wardrobe that reflects yours. Since I work virtually, it doesn’t matter where you are in the world. I am presently working with a client in the U.K. and one in Virginia. Message me, and let’s speak. There is no better time to create a wardrobe that makes you happy and confident! 

Filed Under: Personal Style Tagged With: bethany sigggins, bethanysays, dallas style, image, image consultant, Personal Style, style advice, style coach, wardrobe, wardrobe classics, wardrobe edit, wardrobing

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